Friday, August 03, 2007

Person who loves others will also be loved...




A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-li got married and went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all. Their personalities were very different, and Li-li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-li constantly.

Days passed days and weeks passed weeks. Li-li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-li had to bow to her mother-in -law and obey her every wish.

Apakah Impian Anda.....?




Tersebutlah kisah dua beradik yang tinggal di sebuah pangsapuri
80 tingkat.Pada satu hari ketika pulang ke rumah, mereka mendapati bahawa pangsapuri yang didiami mengalami kerosakan bekalan kuasa. Selepas seketika mereka mengambil keputusan mendaki tangga sahaja untuk pulang kerumah mereka ditingkat 80.Mereka mendaki dan mendaki tangga sehingga ke tingkat 20,
mereka tercungap-cungap dan juga merasa jemu, mereka membuat keputusan untuk meninggalkan beg mereka dan akan kembali mengambilnya kemudian.

Selepas meninggalkan beg, mereka meneruskan pendakian.
Ketika mereka sampai ke tingkat 40, adik lelaki mula mengomel dan mereka berdua mula berkelahi. Namun mereka tetap meneruskan pendakian sambil berkelahi hingga ke lantai ke-60. Mereka kemudian sedar bahawa mereka hanya mempunyai 20 lebih tingkat sahaja untuk sampai ke destinasi dan membuat keputusan untuk berhenti berkelahi dan meneruskan memanjat
dengan keadaan penuh keamanan.

Filosofi PLATO (love & married)





Satu hari, Plato bertanya pada gurunya, "Apa itu cinta? Bagaimana saya menemukannya?

Gurunya menjawab, "Ada ladang gandum yang luas didepan sana. Berjalanlahkamu dan tanpa boleh mundur kembali, kemudian ambillah satu sajaranting. Jika kamu menemukan ranting yang kamu anggap paling menakjubkan, artinya kamu telah menemukan cinta" .

Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan tangan kosong, tanpa membawa apapun.

Gurunya bertanya, "Mengapa kamu tidak membawa satupun ranting?"

A RED ROSE





Red roses were her favorites, her name was also Rose. And every year her husband sent them, tied with pretty bows.Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say,

"I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. My love for you will always grow, with every passing year."

She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. The year he died, the roses were delivered to her door. The card said, "Be my Valentine," like all the years before. She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away. He always liked to do things early, way before the time. Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine. She trimmed the stems, and placed them in a very special vase. Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face. She would sit for hours, in her husband's favorite chair. While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.

A year went by, and it was hard to live without her mate. With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate. Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before, The doorbell rang, and there were roses, sitting by her door. She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock. Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop. The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain, Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?

Still in Love




From the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: 'How deep is your love for me?'

As the guy is not good with his words, this often causes the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girls often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: 'I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?'

The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination,the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leaves, they got engaged. The girl went out to the working society, where as the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work,she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh.

She has lost her voice...... The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort,but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry ...it's still just silence cry that companied her.

Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him,she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls, all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....

The parents decided to move away,hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the girl learns sign language & started a new life. Telling her everyday that she must forget the guy.

One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her 'I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You.
With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

'We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly'

MY FREN WHO IS IN LUV,STILL LOOKING OR
WUT SO EVER..
TAKE DIS AS A LESSON..